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About codyhale

Disciple. Husband. Soon-to-be-daddy! Student Pastor. Mountain Man.

Relevance vs. Rhetoric

Across America, churches are changing.  They no longer have stained glass, cathedral ceilings, and steeples.  They are much more likely to have intelligent lights, costly projector systems, and large production teams.  Worship services seem to more closely resemble rock concerts than the more liturgical services of the past.  Over the past several years, there has been a revolution of new church philosophy and an explosion of church plants.  The driving force behind this transformation seems to be hinged upon the overwhelming belief that church, as it was, was broken.  While there are aspects of this I strongly agree with and some aspects that I question, the church buildings and services are not all that have changed.

This new movement amongst church leaders has also created a new language.  The idea is that people have become so disenfranchised with our Christian clichés and jargon that they have become utterly meaningless.  Words like “Christian” have been replaced with words like “Christ Follower.”  ”Worship services” are now “gatherings.”  We have attempted to redefine the way outsiders view the church in a way that breaks down the barriers associated with old church language.  As our churches have strived to become more relevant in the presentation of the Gospel, it seems obvious that the language we use to communicate the Gospel would transform as well.  I agree.

However, I see a similar problem with the new jargon.  We have to ask the question: Why did the words we are replacing come to mean so little?  I mean, there had to be a time when those words were effective.  Nonetheless, over time words like “saved” have seemingly ceased to resonate with a new generation of outsiders.  How did this happen?

While there are probably a plethora of contributing factors, I would have to argue that there is one overwhelming factor: OUR WORDS HAVEN’T MEANT ANYTHING BECAUSE OUR WORDS HAVEN’T DONE ANYTHING.  Over time, people have been beaten and beaten and beaten with words that have come to have a negative connotation not because they are bad words, but because they are communicated through inauthentic lives.  As churches have built empires and “Christians” have hoarded wealth, words like “serve” and “missions” have come to mean very little.  Believe it or not, outsiders know enough about Jesus and the Bible to know that our words and our lifestyles are not matching up with our supposed beliefs.  The result has been that our “church words” have become mere rhetoric over time, disgusting the unchurched rather than reaching them.

Was it time for new words?  Perhaps, but what happens when words such as “Christ-follower” are just as powerless to people as “Christian?”  As we have strived to make our ministry language more relevant, it seems to be following the same path as its replaced ancestors.  The reality is that our terminology will not become relevant until our lives become relevant.  If we do not become the hands and feet of Jesus, our words will always be rhetoric regardless of how cool or post-modern they sound.  Truthfully, outsiders are not looking for a new language from Christians; they are looking for a new life from Christians.  Until they begin to see the Gospel changing us, they will not be interested in anything we have to say.

My prayer is that our words begin to mean something because our words begin to do something.  I want my life to more relevant than my words.  I’m actually not sure it is even possible for irrelevant words to be spoken from a relevant life.  My heart is broken over the fact that I know that people have seen my life and saw anything but a reflection of Jesus.  Who cares how well-schooled I am in new-age church lingo until I get that right?

Please share your thoughts.

Cody

 
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Posted by on February 17, 2010 in Student Ministry

 

MERGE Rewind: 02-10-10

Current Series: To Love or Not to Love

Message Title: The Source of Your Worth

Speaker: Kenny Nix

Sermon in a Sentence: Your joy should not come from “happily ever after” but instead “happily forever after.”

Scale of Depth: 5 out of 10

Understandable Message:  We get a lot of mixed signals regarding love, dating, and sex.  Our mom’s are putting pressure on us, our friends are putting pressure on us, our minds are putting pressure on us, and our bodies are putting pressure on us.  The world has painted for us a very clear picture of what they believe the perfect life looks like, and it always seems to include Prince Charming and the words “happily ever after” ending the story.  However, most people  usually find that to be a very unrealistic picture of what really happens.  The truth is that some temporary satisfaction and contentment can come from our human relationships, but true contentment comes through your relationship with your Heavenly Father.

A lot of the time, one of the main issues regarding our views toward dating and sex is a result of our understanding of our own value.  The Bible teaches us that we are God’s masterpiece and that He created us and put us together with great care.  The word literally translates out as to say that we are God’s “poetry.”  He loves us and seeks us, and our ultimate value must come from our relationship with Him.

Scripture Reference: Matthew Ephesians 2:1-6, 10

Music Playlist: Sing Sing Sing, Sweetly Broken, and Healer

Favorite Moment: Seeing Chief Mandrew sitting barebacked on a bear.  The conversations I had with students following MERGE.

Needs Improvement: We need to double check the audio on every video we show. 

 
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Posted by on February 11, 2010 in MERGE Rewind

 

MERGE Rewind: 02/03/10

Current Series: MERGErevolution

Message Title: A Tale of Two Paths

Speaker: Cody Hale

Sermon in a Sentence: Once you give your life to Christ, He doesn’t give it back.

Scale of Depth: 3 out of 10

Understandable Message:  Jesus tells us clearly that every person is on one of two roads–the narrow road and the wide road.  Most people that I know and that you know are on the wide road.  The scary part is that Jesus seems to imply that there are a lot of people that are on the wide road, which heads to destruction, and they don’t even know it.  Often, the reason for this is that somewhere along the way a well-meaning Christian has told them that all they have to do is pray some words, get baptized, and remember the time and place that it happend.  However, the picture that Jesus paints of salvation in the Bible is not one of giving Him our words but rather giving Him our lives.

We have all heard the cliche’ (which I believe to be accurate), “Once saved always saved.”  Perhaps though, a better way to say it would be, “Once you give your life to Christ, He doesn’t give it back.”  How do we know if this is us?  Jesus says that one way we will know that He has our life will be through the fruit that our life produces.  The chances are that if you have no present fruit that you probably have no past salvation.  It is next to impossible to surrender your life to Christ and be the same person (or worse) than you were before you surrendered your life to Him.

Scripture Reference: Matthew 7:13-23

Music Playlist: Jesus Freak, The Dessert Song, and The Stand.

Favorite Moment: 11 students giving their lives to Christ!

Needs Improvement: More creativity.

 
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Posted by on February 9, 2010 in MERGE Rewind

 

MERGE Rewind: 01/27/10

Current Series: Scarred

Message Title: Overcoming a Scarred Past

Speaker: Cody Hale

Sermon in a Sentence: God’s future is bigger than your past.

Scale of Depth: 6 out of 10

Understandable Message:  While many of us have invisible scars that only we see, a lot of us also have scars that we don’t see anymore, but everybody else still sees.  When people have big pasts (which many people do), they believe they are useless, and worse yet, others tend to believe that they are lost causes and broken beyond repair.  However, what the world sees as junk God sees as treasure.  He loves using the useless; so, that He is sure to get all of the glory.  Just like Saul (Paul), God’s future is bigger than our past.  We need a bridge, such as Barnabas, to stand in the gap for us and to bring us accountability and credibility.

Scripture Reference: Acts 9

Music Playlist: Let God Arise, Revelation Song, Healer, and Let It Rain.

Favorite Moment: The powerful drama performed by a student led team.  Way to go!  It was flawless!

Needs Improvement: The Welcome! ;)

 
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Posted by on January 28, 2010 in MERGE Rewind

 

MERGE 01/13/10-Full Service.

We have had many requests for last week’s and this week’s service.  Follow this link to view last week’s entire service: http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/4003226.  Hopefully, we will have this week’s service up at some point.

 
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Posted by on January 21, 2010 in MERGE Rewind

 

MERGE Rewind 01/21/10

Current Series: Scarred

Message Title: Hurt People, Hurt People

Speaker: Kenny Nix

Sermon in a Sentence: Often times, scarred people scar other people.

Scale of Depth: 4 out of 10

Understandable Message:  All of us have scars–both physical and emotional.  A lot of the time, people with deep emotional scars are the same people that create those scars in other people.  They try to pretend the scar doesn’t exist until eventually they erupt on the people that are closest to them.  It is impossible do what God created you to do until you deal with your scars.  Just like the purest blood plasma brings healing to our physical scars, the purest blood of all, the blood of Christ, is the only thing that brings healing to our emotional scars.

Scripture Reference: Genesis 37-42

Music Playlist: Blessed Be Your Name, Inside Out, The More I Seek You, and Worth It All.

Favorite Moment: The alter filling during our time of worship.

Needs Improvement: Fluidity at the beginning of the service.

 
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Posted by on January 21, 2010 in MERGE Rewind

 

MERGE Rewind 01/13/10

Current Series: Scarred

Message Title: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

Speaker: Cody Hale

Sermon in a Sentence: Sometimes what hurts in the beginning helps in the end.

Scale of Depth: 4 out of 10

Understandable Message:  All of us have scars–both physical and emotional.  Scars are usually the result of when our lives cross paths with pain and hurt.  Sometimes pain and hurt come without explanation and without apology.  We feel like we are being faithful in our walks with Christ, and we feel like we are doing everything right.  However, it feels like everything bad keeps finding us.  We don’t want cheap bandaids and empty advice; we want answers!

There is no clean, cliche’ answer.  However, throughout Scripture and life, we find that often God takes what hurts unimaginably bad in the beginning to ultimately bring healing in the end.  Just like surgery.  Surgery hurts really bad at first, but it helps you to avoid bigger issues and bigger pain later on.  Sometimes what hurts in the beginning helps in the end.

Scripture Reference: Job

Music Playlist: Sing Sing Sing, Dessert Song, Stay Amazed, and By His Wounds

Favorite Moment: Brokeness at the alter.  Healing happening.

Needs Improvement: I need to have my points in the computer. ;)

 
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Posted by on January 20, 2010 in MERGE Rewind

 

MERGE Student Ministries Broken Down: Part 1

Overall, the health of our student ministry is well.  Students are surrendering to Christ, and students are deepening their faith in Christ.  However, part of my DNA is to evaluate things.  As I evaluated our current ministry, there was one glaring weakness.

MERGE (our seeker-friendly worship environment) has been doing exactly what it is designed to do.  It is the front door to our ministry, and it has served us well by attracting a diverse, multi-ethnical, multi-generational, and unchurched group of students.  DifferenceMakers (our intense discipleship and leadership ministry) has also been beyond our wildest dreams.  The students participating seem to build their week around this ministry, and we have seen multiple students invest the Gospel into friends, as well as six students acknowledge a potential call to vocational ministry.  These two environments are exactly what we hoped they would be.  Students are anxious to come, life-change is happening, and the Gospel is being magnified and mobilized through them.

Our weakness, however, comes in our small group ministry (probably the most vital to the success of our vision).  When we look on from a purely life-change perspective, we aren’t seeing much.  Students that come don’t seem to be connecting, which is a problem seeing as how the entire purpose of small groups is connection.  Students don’t seem to have the same excitement or anxiousness to attend, as they do for the step below and the step above small groups.  When I talk to students, very rarely do they acknowledge small groups as a significant part of their lives, while they do frequently acknowledge MERGE and DifferenceMakers.

Why?  Is it a result of bad small group leaders?  I don’t think so.  Our student ministry team has scoured our church and recruited what I believe to be the best collection of leaders anywhere.  For the large part, they are passionate, faithful, and trustworthy.  Yet, I sense an unspoken frustration on their part due to the lack of effectiveness within our small group ministry.

I don’t believe that the sickness of our small group ministry is a result of bad leaders; instead, I believe it is a result of a bad system.  I don’t think we have done enough to set our small group leaders up for success.  We haven’t trained enough.  We haven’t explained enough.  We haven’t given them a curriculim that builds interest.  With the incredible success of MERGE, we haven’t done enough to build continuity between the two enviornments.  I believe most students feel like they step back 3 decades between MERGE and our small group ministry.

Just like when our bodies get sick, our ministry team is currently in the process of performing surgery on our small group ministry.  We are working hard to be more strategic with our teaching and to build continuity between each of our environments.

We have defined our vision as “Building students that change the lives of other students.”  Giving us a clearly defined “WIN” within our ministry.  However, I think we have done a poor job of defining the “WIN” on all levels our ministry.  This was one of the first steps we have taken toward, hopefully, a healthy small group ministry.  Our ”WINS” are as follows:

  • Student Ministry: Our win is when a student invests his or her faith into another student.
  • MERGE: Our win is when students leave wanting more.
  • Small Groups:  Our win is when students share something from their heart.
  • DifferenceMakers: Our win is when students DO what they’ve learned.
  • Internship Ministry: Our win is when we create leaders that create more leaders.

While each of these go much deeper than they may first appear, we tried to work hard to keep them simple so that they are easy to buy into and to evaluate ourselves by.  Hopefully, this will allow our volunteers something a little more substantial to guage their success by other than “How many?”

Our new TRIBES strategy was finally a completed work today (I will go into more detail about this on a later date).  We will be introducing a new small group structure and strategy this Sunday.  We are praying for a buy in and for, more importantly, life-changing small groups.  I’m excited to introduce what we believe will be an effective plan, but, as is always the case with change, I’m also a little nervous.

Thanks for listening.

 
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Posted by on January 19, 2010 in Student Ministry

 

Decentralized Student Ministry

***This is a post from several months ago.  It was on my heart; so, I thought I would just repost it.***

I’ve been thinking through our student ministry strategy.  We’ve identified a variety of foundational elements that we want to build this ministry upon.  I’ve been trying to figure how to flesh out a ministry model that will be easy for us to communicate with our leadership.  We’ve communicated our vision (“building students that change the lives of other students”), and we’ve communicated a variety of ways we desire to get there; however, I’m not sure that we have done a very good job of communicating why our structure is the way that it is.

For the time being, I’m going to call our strategy a “decentralized” student ministry.  We desire for our student ministry to be built on eternal truths and lifelong relationships rather than a charismatic youth minister’s personality.  Though we aren’t there yet, we are working as hard as we can to expand our base beyond our youth ministers.  I think it would be a beautiful picture if we had students changing the lives of other students, small group leaders investing themselves and truth into students, and youth ministers that are providing spirititual leadership, vision, administration, accountability, and training to maximize the success of everyone, without anyone really being sure who the “Guy in Charge” really is.

Now, obviously when someone has a platform to preach, such as MERGE, that allows easy identification of leadership  Also, I think leadership is necessary, important, and Biblical.  God calls and equips people to lead.  We are simply trying to use our leadership in a different way and in different places.  We want to put our students and families in the best possible place to have a dynamic, growing relationship with Christ.  So, I guess what I’m saying is something I’ve said before: I hope students have a closer, deeper relationship with their small group leader than with me or even their youth minister.  I think the ideal scenario would be for direct spiritual leadership in the following order:

  1. Parents
  2. Small Group Leader
  3. Youth Minister (Should provide spiritual guidance, discipleship, and accountability for the previous 2.)
  4. Student Pastor (Should provide spiritual guidance, discipleship, and accountability for the previous 3.)

Now, we haven’t got this all figured out, which is probably evident by the fact that this is incredibly confusing to read .  We are just experimenting with various ideas.  We are striving to do a better job developing families, rather than just students.  We aren’t sure exactly how that’s going to happen, but we are convinced the best way to develop fully devoted students is to develop fully devoted families.

For those of you who actually managed to read through this rambling, thanks for listening.  It helps me to talk it out.  If any of my fellow youth ministers, parents, or small group leaders have any thoughts, I would love some advice or feedback.  What are some things that you are trying?

Just some thoughts.

 
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Posted by on December 2, 2009 in Student Ministry

 

MERGE Rewind 11/11/09

Current Series: From the Heart

Message Title: “Revolutionary”

Speaker: Cody Hale

Sermon in a Sentence: God isn’t looking for more church people; He is looking for Revolutionaries.

Scale of Depth: 10 out of 10

Understandable Message:  This week’s MERGE was very different and difficult for some.  We took a break from all of our series and shared straight from what God has been stirring in our hearts.  Our greatest fear is that we build another generation of people that knows how to sing well, raise their hands at the right time, come to the altar at the right time, and say all the right answers.  Church people have destroyed the church.  The call to follow Christ is not a call to be another church person; the call to follow Christ is to be a revolutionary.  A revolutionary is okay with being hated (Matthew 10:22).  A revolutionary abandons EVERYTHING (Luke 14:33).  A revolutionary feeds the hungry, brings hope to the hopeless, inspires the disheartened, and loves the unlovable.  A revolutionary always swims upstream, even when they believe they are the only one.  The challenge was for this generation to become a generation of revolutionaries.

Scripture Reference: Luke 14:25-35

Music Playlist: The More I Seek You, Give Us Clean Hands, and Here Us from Heaven

Favorite Moment: Having students stand even when it wasn’t everybody to answer the call to be a revolutionary.  Those students staying almost 45 minutes late to worship Christ, pray with each other, and share what had penetrated their hearts.

Needs Improvement: Follow-up

 
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Posted by on November 17, 2009 in MERGE Rewind

 
 
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